Both my parents were inventive in how they went about their work. My dad was structural, organized, and had theories while my mom was far more intuitive in her approach to art and life. She created a beautiful soulful nest of a home. It was not always neat, but it allowed for experimentation, growth, and variation. Even her sewed repairs and stitched-in clothing name tags had an original creative flare. Sometimes the stitches were so exaggerated and messy us children were reluctant to say our mother had repaired our clothes and instead claimed it was our own mending. I have one last towel in the studio that has her handiwork. It is a red towel from the days when Dad decided that each family member was to be assigned their own color bath towel. It looks like Frankenstein might have stitched it in an erratic burst of craftsmanship, but I can no longer let it go as is stitched with the color of her absence.
Your absence has gone through me
Like thread through a needle.
Everything I do is stitched with its color.
— W. S. Merwin, “Separation” from The Second Four Books of Poems, Copper Canyon Press, 1993
One reply on “#19 decembrance 2020”
dear rosa
i have been enjoying so much your interlacing of family reminiscence / s
this
winter
solstice
beautifully rendered
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i can remember therefore visualize so well
sounds + colors + light
come back to me
the color of her absence – is a beautiful phrase
as you know – i too had a sewer in my uP bringing –
different temper a ment different sensibility
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yet
praps tHis – in part –
where we learned to be
Makers.
W S Merwin – i return to – yes
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